First i want to say happy fathers day to all dads.
It takes allot to be a good dad and be a good person. Some have a bigger gift than others but...all dads are special to there children. Now I know there are many dads out there that have made makes some mistakes, we are not all perfect. However, not matter what has hapend in your relationship with your dad, call him today wish him a happy fathers day. You don't have to talk like your best friends, even if its just happy fathers day and hang up, or in a text message...something. Sometimes in life we have to get past ourselves and be the better person and do the right thing. That doesn't mean kiss any ones butt NO. That doesn't mean you have to forgive your dad for everything if you have a bad relationship with him, or no relationship lol. If you have a good relationship hang out with dad no matter whats going on. I can promise you, you just saying happy fathers day is going to stay in that dad all day and make him think and feel different that day. Maybe even long term change. For those who have a dad that may not be doing all the right things...Your comments could just be what he needs to change and be a better dad. for that matter maybe even a better person! I can almost hear some of you screaming you dont know my dad are you crazy lol. Hey I am 43 years old and my dad has never really EVER been in my life. If I wanted to see him I had to go to him, call him, or whatever was needed to go to him. He never really has done anything in my life except when I was I think 8 or younger. My Favorite memory of my dad is when I was a kid we went fishing on the break waters. Break waters are these giant blocks the size of cars stacked up. They go about a half mile out in the ocean and curve a little. I think they are there so when waves get big it stops the high waves from bashing the beach. Anyway, I remember dad and me just us...it was great we wen out there he helped me with my fishing pole. Like most kids I was more of a distraction and screwing up like crazy hahaha. I got the line stuck 3-4 times lol. One of those times while my dad was helping my stuck line in the rocks probably lmao. I happen to look over at dads pole and say it bend way over. Now mind up dad had the big time fishing ocean pole he just got and was using for the first time. Anyway I look over see this pole bending way over I yell out "DAD look, your pole. You have a fish". dad says ohhh %$#& bad words lol. and went to the pole and literally his hands where @ inches from the pole and the pole bent all the way down. I was like wow its going to break in half. Mind you the pole was wedged between these giant rocks the size of cars ok. 2 inches from the pole you can see the excitement in dads eyes lol. Then bamm the pole is ripped from the rocks and gone in the water. We both looked in complete disbelief, then the inevitable thing happened. Son of a #$%^&, mother*&#@, you've gatta be kidding me damm it $#%@. I was like ohhhh crap dads pissed. Then i looked at him and said dad it had to be a shark, maybe a whale? what was it dad. In the midst of rage he looks back and says hell I don't know but it was huge and gave a little smile. Then went back to son of a #$%^&, gosh dang (the other word I wont say), %$#@, &*^%. He looked around and said well I guess lets go. We packed up and went to my cousins house that was not far off. And he retold the story everyone was like wow it must have been huge it was a great memory for me. So what I want everyone to do is remember one of your memories with your dad and call him. If you don't have a memory isn't it time you make one? Isn't it ti,e you make a memory you'll never forget?
Happy Fathers day to all the dads out there and Happy fathers day to my dad I love you no matter what life throws at us.
Roy Turner
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